I think i have been refereeing, and i realise that is not helping.
I have decided to take the approach of "not interested".
This has resulted in the bickering escalating into physical fighting.
I had tried time outs and stuff, but its not helpful as its obviously a natural-ish thing amongst siblings.
Physical fighting i struggle to ignore as i dont believe anyone should be hitting.
So am i right in thinking this is the time i seperate them both to time outs, maybe?
Any tips or ideas as its driving me mad
thanks