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Empty nest and depression

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alliejc · 05/10/2015 20:29

I have been a single parent for most of my twins lives. They are now nearly 19. One has gone to uni in September and I have hit a huge depression. I've been signed off work. I feel I've lost my identity, my role in life. Yes I still have one at home - he's looking for work. But I can't handle the feeling of missing his brother. We used to talk a lot, about everything. I'm so proud and pleased that he has settled into uni life so quickly - I must've done something right. But the thought of being at home with no one fills me with despair. I only ever wanted to be a mum. Never anything else. I work full time but I've got no real 'close' friends and I feel so alone. I know I'm being absolutely ridiculous but I can't stress enough how low and useless I now feel. Please help!

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Mehitabel6 · 05/10/2015 22:46

Now is the time to try new things.
It is a big mistake not to have had your own life since they were small, but it is never too late.
Start small, take an interest and join something. If you haven't got an interest find something to volunteer with. It is often easier to meet people and make friends if you are doing something.

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