Hi. Never thought I'd join a parenting group when my children were 18! I have twin boys and have bought them up on my own since before they turned two. Three days again I dropped one of my boys at university for the first time and said goodbye. I am incredibly proud. He is confident, independent and bright. But oh my god, I literally feel bereft. I can't stop crying. Don't get me wrong, he will be fine. I'm dead proud of the job I have done in bringing him up. I also know I'm so lucky I still have has wonderful brother at home. But I miss him dreadfully. Like my whole purpose in life was to bring up my children. I work full time but what terrifies me is - what do I do when they've both gone. What do I do? My purpose in life will be gone. Please tell me this is a temporary feeling and it will pass. I feel so very down at the moment. Advice please x