Where do I start, I have never posted on any site , only seen Facebook through friends, twitter and Instagram have me lost! But I feel really lost today so where best to get advice about school then here . First a bit of back story as I believe it's relevant, my wife and I adopted our little girl aged 18 months, she was born 13 weeks prem , weighed just over a pound and spent the first six months of her life in intensive care, she was then tube fed until she was 2 1/2 until we weened her off that and onto baby food, she was diagnosed with developmental delay and we were told of all the possible things that she may develop as she gets older , but we believed that with the right environment and support she could flourish. She is now six and boy has she flourished. She attends regular school goes to rainbows and swimming class and is now asking to join a martial arts club, she is still tiny and is still under several hospital departments such as physio, speech and language , occupational therapy etc. she started year 1 last year and struggled to say the least, her concentration just wasn't there, she has always been stubborn but with what's happened in her short little life who wouldn't be( I also believe this stubborn streak is why she's still alive. ) Which led to some issues but with several meetings with the school who eventually understood , support was put in place to help her and the school. The last four months at school had been much better and an improvement had been noted by all parties. This year she started year 2 and apart from one small hic-cup she settled in really well and seemed to be enjoying school. Well today amazed me, we left for school as usual for our morning chat when a boy in the same class came up to her In front of me and his mom and called her " a little s### head " I was shocked. I remained calm and said to his mom excuse me but your boy has just swore at my daughter , she gave a shrug of her shoulders and walked away, I said excuse me but I'm talking to you and she then turned around and yelled " i will deal with it" no apology to my daughter or anything. I went to the school spoke to the headmistress and teacher as I thought this was for the best, on my way home the mom stared at me in her car giving the daggers as she drove past me , I did stare back a bit juvenile I know but I was cross, she then pulled up beside me , wound her window down , and said she doesn't appreciate being shouted at, I replied that I hadn't shouted and asked her if she thought that it was ok for a six year old to verbally abuse another six year old , and I said that I found it and her attitude disgusting, I did lose my cool a little and I regret saying that if he repeats it or hurts my daughter in anyway I would be having further words, at no point though did I raise my voice or anything like that. I went to the school this afternoon to collect my daughter and speak to the head and teacher to see what had been done, only for the deputy head to inform me that the boys mom had said that I'd hit her car and shouted at her and intimidated her! I couldn't believe my ears. I informed the deputy head that if that's true the police should be called. How could I have hit anyone's car window when she drove past me stopped and wound her passenger window down to shout at me! I'm at a loss of what to do, I've never encountered anything like this before, I don't want to make things worse but I also don't want my name being besmirched by a liar