I have to go back to work in a few weeks and DS (almost one) will be looked after by grandparents. Now that the time is getting closer I am getting more uncomfortable with the idea that their parenting may be different to mine. To give an example, if DS is doing something like fiddling with a plug socket I tell him 'no' and then distract him with something else. My mum repeatedly tells him no and then he cries. This happened earlier and I moved him to distract him and she told me not to pick him up! Needless to say I told her I was moving him to distract him but he is my bloody child! I don't want to feel that I am telling them what to do all the time but we clearly have different views.