I'm in a pickle basically as DP is expecting me to give up on doing my PhD until DS is in school - which will be 1 1/2 years time. It's not long but our relationship has broken down and waiting that long to at least take the steps towards some indepencence from mine and DS's dependence on him seems frighteingly long.
If I left with DS I would have to rent a flat/house or lodge maybe, be responsible for our bills and I'm just wondering if it would be feesible to do my PhD via the OU part time - I'd have to get a career development loan and a part time job - but I'm not sure if I'd qualify for any benefits.
Anyone been in a similar situation?