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Is this OK, or a bit neglectful do you think?

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NormaSnorks · 31/10/2006 14:50

A friend an I have mixed views on this - I'd welcome your thoughts.

There is a little girl in the same class as my DS (Reception). She's one of the youngest ones who are still going just half days. We know the family a little but not a lot - seem like nice people. The mum works and the dad runs his own computer business from home.

Thing is, my friend was talking to the dad at school the other day about what the kids do in the afternoon when they get home, and this Dad said that "oh, after we've had lunch, X just has to get on with stuff on her own - drawing and TV and that sort of stuff, 'cos I usually go back into my ofifce and do some more work". They live in an old house, and his 'office' is a room on the second floor. Their playroom & lounge are all on the ground floor.

My friend thinks this is a bit neglectful as the daughter isn't really being properly supervised. I tend to think it's probably OK - after all, they're still in the same house aren't they? And anyway, it not for long, as their other (older)child is home from school at 3 p.m.

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NappiesGalore · 31/10/2006 17:30

maybe she should find somehting to occupy her mind, other than being full time 1on1 parent. like have another (always good for knocking smugness out of only child parents)

or MN or something. or PT work. i dunno.

she sounds like a PITA tbh

glad you dont hold any truck with it, tho

LunarSea · 31/10/2006 20:17

Two days a week when we don't have any after school care I pick ds (5) up from school, and then carry on working for a couple of hours while he plays or watches TV. Also most mornings there is about half an hour between dh going to work and having to take him to school, when I'm already working, which means he has to keep himself amused (or rather eat his breakfast without supervision and get himself dressed). He's in the next room, I can hear him all the time, and he can always come to me if there is anything he needs.

I don't think it's neglect - just encouraging independence and being self-reliant!!

NormaSnorks · 31/10/2006 20:32

Lunar - I agree! On a Sunday our two are so excited about being able to get their own breakfast (cereal only - no toast!) and they really rise to the 'challenge' - clearing away afterwards...AND they think it's a real TREAT (while DH & I stay in bed! )

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