My mother decided to buy the kids (5 and 7) a dwarf hamster for Christmas.
I'm not a pet lover, we had a kitten a few years ago and I gave it back to her after 3 days.
I have been a dog owner funnily enough, collie pup, and that was entirely different. She really was accepted as family. This was before I had children.
I've since been a lone parent and the thought of the extra responsibility with pets makes me panic.
Anyway, I already had discipline issues with my children, so coming down this morning to find they'd let it out by themselves whilst I was sleeping, cage contents all over the floors, and no hamster to be seen has left me so shocked I don't know how to punish this really.
It's consequently been found cowering in a corner.
They were sat down and expressly told, and fully explained why, they shouldn't touch it wothout me being there.
My style of discipline is that I'll tell them, the eldest girl sticks to the rules, amd the youngest just smirks. Today though, surprisingly, even she stepped over the line.
I often make false threats when disciplining, which is a key issue I suspect, so how, this time, do I appropriately impart the significance of what they have done this morning, to prevent a repeat?
I genuinely welcome your advice.
Thankyou