Thank you Nana for your honest reply. I shall tell you a little about my background (really i am meant to be doing housework!) I have worked in the social care sector as a senior support worker, I've worked with adults with mild/severe learning disabilities other enduring on going mental health illness. I've also been a voluntary support worker and a formal carer for my elderly grandfather.
I have always wanted to help people and make a positive difference to their lives. I enjoyed my job though at times it was challenging and very stressful. My salary was good but not that important job satisfaction was more my priority.
Having not had the best of childhoods (wont bore you all with that sorry tale) I wonder if this is where my desire to help others stems from or if its just who i am. Since i was at school i have wanted to be a social worker that was over 20 years ago.
I am in the middle of making some huge life changing decisions one of which is considering my degree. I have applied for it and a counselling course which is part time self funded through a private company.
We (myself and little DS) are having to leave the house we are currently staying in and due to many personal reasons i wish a fresh start. I am considering re-locating whether i get a place at uni or not as the counselling course is in that area also. I have few friends and no family support here anyway.
I gained my HNC in social care with the intention of starting uni 4 years ago, a lot has happened in that time. I became very unwell (mentally) for some time, then after leaving my partner found out i was expecting a baby. I started out on my own and had the baby who is the light of my life.
Got back together with the Ex (hindsight i wish i had it then) gave up everything and it didn't work out so here i sit 36 yrs old questioning my future and scared of making another wrong decision. I haven't worked since gaining my HNC and tbh I've lost my confidence in myself.
I want to do my degree for me and for my DS future, financially I am going to have to raise him alone. I am in no doubt of the hard work a degree would be going it alone with a toddler. I thought my degree in social work would open a lot of doors for me in the future and give me many job opportunities. I have no idea what area i would like to work in there are so many that interest me. I was hoping i would find my feet a long the way.
The social workers i have spoken to say their job isn't what they thought it would be and echo your statement above. They don't feel they are providing direct help to individuals and spend more time doing paperwork. I have read stories of newly qualified social workers resigning and being unable to cope. Granted these were all negative stories with very little positive in them. It makes me wonder if it is the right career path for me after all.
Sorry look at the size of this post! That's one way to get out of doing housework.