DS2 is 5 weeks old. Obviously a new baby comes with sleepless nights, constant feeding etc. I'm enjoying it, the nights aren't too bad and He's taken well to breastfeeding. However I'm finding these first weeks really difficult because my DP just isn't interested. He was absolutely besotted with DS1 when he was born, DS2 was wanted. He hasn't changed one nappy, or got him dressed/bath time etc. I can cope with that but he sighs when I ask him to hold him. He doesn't mention his name when he speaks of the future. I've asked him to have Him soon with some bottles so I can take DS1 out on my own for some time together as the baby always feeds and I haven't spent much quality time with my eldest. He point blank refuses. He makes out as if DS2 is a difficult baby, which is beyond me as he only wakes twice a night for feeds which I obviously do and he doesn't even cry for them he just stirs. Sometimes he cries in the evenings with bad wind but this has only happened about 4 times in the 5 weeks.
Baby doesn't go to sleep until 10:30pm which leaves no time for me and DP but I've explained this will change and isn't forever. He seems to be jelous almost of the baby, making little comments about him taking up room in the bed etc and me not staying up with DP after baby goes to sleep. I'm knackered come half ten !!
I feel as though the baby is just mine, and not DPs at all, I feel as though he is fully my responsibility and now I worry about asking him to hold him for two minutes whilst I pop to the frikkin toilet or need to do something!!
It's really making me resent him. :-(
Has anyone experienced this behaviour from their partner. Any advice