I have two children, and I have learnt by my "mistakes" for the second one, i decided my little one wouldn't ve getting any chocolate because really at 8 months there is no need, I have made this so crystal clear, I go away for the weekend and leave kids with a grandparent and I told my parent tell them NO chocolate for the my littlest one, I come home to find she has been given it! I know it's only chocolate but I'm really angry that they knew I said no and they done it anyway! I know they wouldn't do this to there other daughter in law, they would respect her wishes I'm so angry at it my partner see's nothing wrong with it but if it had been my parents doing something he didn't want them doing he would be the same, I'm upset that I missed her first I have never missed a first, I wanted to keep her first chocolate for birthday or Xmas but no they went behind my back and gave her a bar! Am I over reacting? It's not the chocolate it's the fact they knew I didn't want her having any....