Hi guys need some advice, my children stay with their dad 2 days per wk. I work, he claims benefits whilst also working cash in hand. As he receives benefits I recieve no csa (I cancelled the £5 per wk entitlement it helped in no way bring our kids up) i ask him for nothing as i don't need it. I do ok on my own. The problem is he is not asking that i provide all clothing whilst my kids are with him as he says i recieve all the benefits ie tax credits and child benefits. He is due to have the kids at halloween but says he will only provide a costume for 1 child and I should for the other! I am discusted at the suggestion of this! I spent over £1000 on my daughters communion and didn't ask him for help as I don't need it! When with me it is my responsibility, when with him it is his. Wen they go for the wkend I send 2 outfits so all he really needs to do is provide 2 outfits for the days he gets them from school. I know I'm a good mum and work hard to give my kids all they need whilst in my care. I'm just wondering has anyone else been in this situation or have advice. I am now being told he is taking the matter bk to court (which of course he doesn't pay for) i find this all very childish but there is no reasoning with him. He's right, im wrong (apparently) 