Hi I have 3 children. Ds1 is reserved. He's fairly self aware and likes to do his own thing. He's in P2 but often if I ask who he's played with, he says no one of it was quite lonely today. I went through phases of being Billy no mates, in fact, have few friends in area as I work full time. Have had a few play dates for son and have gone okish, though wouldn't say who we've had over - that they've got on that great. Trying to invite folk for his party was a nightmare as when I asked him who he wanted to invite, he said, who do you think I should invite mummy? A lot of the folk came back saying they couldn't make his party. My son is good, he's not a trouble maker at all... In fact, a bit of a conformist and a bit serious. When I ask he just says the other children didn't want to play his games. I've told him he needs to listen what the other children are playing as it might be fun... But he seems to know his own mind about what he wants to do. When I've asked teachers, they say he mixes well... But must admit, I don't know who to invite for play dates. Am sure I could arrange them with the existing, but it has been some time... And they just need to go down the road as there seem to be many people these kids know on their own estates (whereas I rarely socialise on my own estate apart from neighbour but she has no kids). Ds goes to beavers (this is new), swimming and drama but there's only 3 in that class and realistically I can't afford any other clubs or can take him as I do compressed hours so I can take him swimming on weds. Am I worrying unnecessarily??