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working mums

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ch1134 · 11/09/2014 15:21

Well done!
Just gone back to work and for me, this is the hard bit! You get lots of concern when pregnant and with a newborn. I was lucky and found these bits easy. But working and looking after a baby? No-one bats an eyelid!
And I don't suppose it gets any easier with more than one child?

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CultureSucksDownWords · 11/09/2014 16:32

Being a working parent is a bit of an adjustment from being on maternity or paternity leave. I found it hard to really care and get into my work when I went back, but I had been off for a year and felt very disconnected.

GingerDoodle · 11/09/2014 17:18

Im sure it is difficult but equally have a clap for those of us who are stay at home parents and or / those of us that work from home. I don't 'work' that many hours as I am self employed and have to do it around my mini but I essentially work 12 hour + days with no holiday or sick leave.

I take my hat off with anyone with more than one regardless of wether or not they work - its not something I could cope with.

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ch1134 · 11/09/2014 17:27

well done to you too - life seems to get busier as they get bigger!

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PumpkinPie2013 · 11/09/2014 19:44

I'm on my 4th week back full time and it can be hard juggling working with nursery pick up and drop off and doing 'house' stuff but I find if I'm organised It works fine.

Equally, I think SAHPs work hard as well. I enjoyed my maternity leave and ds is a pretty good baby but it was still hard work some days as he wanted attention all the time.

StillWishihadabs · 11/09/2014 19:48

Yes. But we are not working mums we are working parents (unless a lp). The trials and tribulations should be shared if you have a live in partner.

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ch1134 · 11/09/2014 21:23

Too right! And this should be parentsnet!

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bayrans · 11/09/2014 22:05

I went back this week after 14 glorious months.... Back to 12 hour shifts, and i thought parenting was tiring! My god, 2 shifts has totally wiped me out. I'll get back into the swing of things and I'm thankful I don't have to go back full time.

Busymumofone · 12/09/2014 17:02

Well done to you too OP! I've been back at work for just over 2 months and its a struggle doing everything - well almost everything as i rarely do the cleaning nowadays!

Hats off to SAHP and anyone managing full time work/nursery/school

Pico2 · 12/09/2014 17:11

I work and would find staying at home far harder. It must all depend on personal circumstances and personality.

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