child support

[sarahxnx87]

Hi I was just wanting a little advice really. My little boy is 3 and his 'Dad' has never been interested. He has seen him once when he was sleeping and that is it. I've offered contact on numerous occasions mainly because I hate that my son is missing out on having a father in his life.
My ex has a daughter who is 18 months older than my boy and he fought tooth and nail for joint access to her.

I've recently been thinking of trying to get some child support for my son but I've a few reservations and I don't want him to think I'm wanting the money for myself. will I have to go through court to get it? and can I get it paid direct into a savings account for my boy? I'm scared that this will cause trouble and ei wonder if at the end of it all it would be worth it.

Thankyou in advance for any advice

I've just done the same thing similar circumstances. It took me ages to convince myself it was the right thing to do. I look at it this way if he can't be bothered to support baby practically or emotionally then he should financially. It takes 2 to make a baby and no excuses as to why you both shouldn't unless that was agreed before conception. He will be paying support to the other child why not yours? Contact child maintenance options and get what belongs to your little boy x

I have a 7 year old and his 'dad' sperm doner don't see him but I make him pay forhim and yes it gets payed into my son's account you say that when they ask you were you want it payed go to the csa and see what your entitled to