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Help I've broken my baby!

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mrsmugoo · 13/08/2014 11:32

I took my 5 month old to a family friendly festival last weekend and we camped for two nights.

He took to it really well - napped in his pushchair whenever he needed to. In the evening I put him in his pjs and snuggled him up in his pushchair and he'd go to sleep at his usual time (about 7:30-8) while we walked around the festival and saw acts / had dinner etc.. he'd wake for a bit and then go back down for the night when I returned to the tent about 10:30/11. He slept surprisingly well in the tent even though it was a bit chilly - he only woke for one other feed over night and I brought him in with me then to keep warm. I really thought we'd done amazingly. The second night though it rained and the noise woke him up at 6:30am and he couldn't go back to sleep because it was chilly/light/noisy

He is (was) a very predictable baby and in a nice routine (3 naps a day, 2 hours wake time, 3 hours after last nap in bed) - goes down for naps and bedtime easily, self settles etc… but since we've been back he's been refusing naps, waking up crying, refusing to sleep in his cot, doing a mixture of much longer/shorter naps, very grizzly, constantly rolling over into his tummy (he does this when he's very tired) and generally being really out of sorts.

I feel awfully guilty that taking him out of his routine at such a tiny age has messed him up like this - he never cries usually so to see him crying and struggling to get to sleep when he's so clearly tired is distressing for us both. It's like he's regressed and forgotten how to to it.

I've ended up feeding/cuddling to sleep and having to sit with him while he naps on the double bed in the dark with white noise on. Last night at bedtime I let him fall asleep on the boob and slipped his fingers in as the nipple came out and transferred him down whereas usually I'd just place him down after his feed and he'd roll over and get comfy and find his own fingers to suck off to sleep.

Has anyone had experience with completely flummoxing their baby? How long do you think it will take him to normalise back? If I carry on feeding to sleep and letting him sleep on the double bed will he form this as a new habit? I'm keen not to waste all my hard work from before getting him self settling/into his cot.

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unrealhousewife · 13/08/2014 14:47

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/products/704975-baby-ear-defenders-where-to-get-and-do-they-work/AllOnOnePage

Sound is not just conducted through the ears. I would be very careful. Nigella's probably just jealous because in her day (and mine) we didn't have ear defenders for babies and anyone taking their baby to a festival really was an idiot so we just didn't go.

I think ear defenders are a nice idea but have you ever had headphones on and been able to hear? The only true hearing protection you get is through plugs that prevent any air from reaching the eardrum, ear defenders can't do that.

And even then, sound travels through your bones. Just because your baby seems 'happy' doesn't mean damage isn't being done.

mrsmugoo · 13/08/2014 15:07

I'm happy that I've done no damage - we never took him close enough to any amplified sound to even need to raise your voice to be heard. The ear defenders are really just to dampen down the sound to keep them chilled out.

It really wasn't that kind of festival anyway - think theatre, children's den making workshops, face painting, cricket, lake swimming….

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hollie84 · 13/08/2014 15:15

I've taken a baby to festivals and we just didn't take him near to any loud music - it was fine. Even with ear defenders we weren't parking him next to the speakers Confused

OP, I wouldn't worry about it too much. It might even be something else like teething that is upsetting him. I'd stick to the bits of the routine that you can but help him to sleep/settle while he needs it.

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HotPinkWeaselWearingLederhosen · 13/08/2014 15:26

I used to work at festivals and shows. And take my babies, and they broke too on return. I always thought it was all the fresh air and interesting things to process that prompted good sleeping, and the return home bored them so they decided to punish me, knackered from working for entertainment.

I reckon what you've got at the moment is just a common or garden sleep regression though. Smile

TreadSoftlyOnMyDreams · 13/08/2014 15:43

Any sign of teeth? My DD got her first two at 5.5 months...

TeaAddict235 · 13/08/2014 21:29

still don't think that the title is particularly humourous, but then I suppose that you got the help that you needed.

crying wolf comes to mind

plinth · 13/08/2014 21:35

I'm trying to imagine a situation whereby someone would "break their baby", for example perhaps with the baby falling down the stairs, sustaining numerous fractures, and think "I know, I'll start a thread"....

Um no, can't imagine it Smile

mrsmugoo · 13/08/2014 21:45

Jesus it was just meant to be lighthearted because I've buggered up his routine and "broken" him.

I don't understand why anyone would get worked up over something which is SO CLEARLY just lighthearted?!

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CeliaBowen · 13/08/2014 22:01

OP, there are some people who don't have enough to occupy them.

Both of mine were pests for routine anyway and trips away sent them totally haywire! Hopefully he will settle down over the next week or so.

I don't get the "crying wolf" comment at all, teaaddict, could you explain, please?

plinth · 13/08/2014 22:01

You didn't put in the title OP

so that the lacking in subtlety or imagination posters understand you

mrsmugoo · 13/08/2014 22:03

What, people actually do that?

LOLZ.

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ginslinger · 13/08/2014 22:08

If you put lighthearted in the title then you break the internet which is really serious,

Southpaws · 13/08/2014 22:14

Have no practical advice to offer OP but am baffled by some of the miserable wankers on here. It's so obviously bloody lighthearted. The mind boggles at how sour faced you would have to be to take offence Confused

Highlove · 13/08/2014 22:51

Dear god, what is wrong with people? On what planet is it worth getting so worked up over this thread title?

OP, I hope you had a fabulous time at the festival and you can glue your broken baby back together soon. Grin

LittleLionMansMummy · 13/08/2014 23:22

Fuckola. Some people are crazy op. More than I realised, actually!

Could be pure coincidence. And if not, all babies get thrown when on holiday wherever, so don't stress about others getting all sniffy about it being a music festival. He'll soon get back to normal, no lasting damage!

unrealhousewife · 14/08/2014 03:46

As long as you didn't duct tape the dummy to his face and put him in a roasting pan with some veg, I think your sense of humour is fully child protected.

Did anyone see that?

Iggly · 14/08/2014 21:28

You BROKE your baby?

Bloody hell woman. Dial 999 Wink Grin

5 months is a time of madness and change for babies. It'll settle down soon.

mrsmugoo · 15/08/2014 16:00

He is still broken btw - he's had 2 twenty minute naps so far today....

Preparing myself for early evening Armageddon...

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smokeandfluff · 16/08/2014 10:18

Maybe mothercare sells baby superglue? You could fix him then.....

TeaAddict235 · 16/08/2014 11:21

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CeliaBowen · 16/08/2014 11:46

Wow. That was quite uncalled for, teaAddict!

Lots of things on MN might seem petty to those not going through them at the time!

smokeandfluff · 16/08/2014 12:28

Why are you reading and posting if you don't care?

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