I have noticed that my dd is becoming increasingly shy. Since she was born I have taken her to various mother and baby groups, she comes on outings with our friends, we have stayed over in different places and she goes to her grandma's once a week, but despite all of this she is shy!
I know there is nothing wrong with being shy, but she is taking it to extremes - yesterday she cried because a little girl stood next to her! If any child approaches her to play, she backs off and automatically looks to me. Sometimes I don't know why I bother going to any playgroups at all, as all she does is stand next to me the whole time, with her head on my lap. I have tried ignoring her, I have sat her down playing and then crept off when I thought she was distracted, everything! She won't even approach the woman who comes round with drinks and biscuits, I have to go with her.
She is 20 months old and her shyness does seem to be reaching a peak. Everyone keeps saying that it will get better with time, but I met someone yesterday whose 3 year old is just as bad as mine. I don't want my dd to be that shy at 3, I want her to be confident and sociable! Does anyone have any suggestions as to what I can do?
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Shy child! What to do?
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Rhubarb · 20/03/2002 13:55
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