If your 2.5 year old child poos their pants without apparently noticing or minding ... but is otherwise VERY slowly getting the hang of peeing in a potty, then does that generally mean they're not quite ready for pants or do you think it's just a case of enduring it for quite a while longer?
In addition, is there anything that anyone's said to their child in this situation, which has got through to the child that pooing in pants is NOT a good thing and not what we're working towards ... as my DD just thinks it's a case of "oops", then cleaning, wiping, new pants and no worries. Incidentally, she gets one smartie (stickers wouldn't work with this one) for a pee in the potty but has been promised 3 for a poo in the potty ...
All thoughts welcome! We're on day 3 of potty training so I'm kind of living, dreaming, breathing the whole delightful experience THANK GOD for washing machines heh.