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be honest - how much TV does your toddler watch?

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milkyman · 16/05/2014 15:23

My ds is 18mth and sometimes its 1.5hrs overall on bad days! Usually postman pat dvd and cbeebies. Feel sooo guilty!

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WowserBowser · 16/05/2014 15:26

Mine watches a lot! Less now it's sunny and easier to play outside.

TurnOverTheTv · 16/05/2014 15:27

My tv is on for hours on end. Not always kids programmes Sometimes they are watching, sometimes they aren't. I like background noise all the time though.

TurnOverTheTv · 16/05/2014 15:28

It'll be loads less now the weather is warmer though

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StarDustInTheWind · 16/05/2014 15:28

hahahahaha...... mine watched lots - LOTS - still do now they are 11 and 13 and they are both fine upstanding kids who do their homework and piano practise, have black belts and compete in karate and take care of their pets lovingly....

they even play computer games and have internet access and STILL manage to be in the top sets for Maths, English, Science and languages....

SingSongSlummy · 16/05/2014 15:32

I use TV as the bribe to get through teatime and bath time. If they've been good, they get 15 mins before bed . they are 2.5 and 4 yrs.

widdle · 16/05/2014 15:32

I always worry about this too. I like background noise so have the news on when DS (11 months) is playing. I've worked out though that I can pull out one of the cords in the back of the telly and it turns the screen blank. Makes me feel so much better. Like listening to the radio!

widdle · 16/05/2014 15:39

Oh and I can only get DS to stay in his highchair if Tweenies is on so that's how he has his meals now Blush I figure it's better than the screaming mess he used to be when I used to feed him with no TV. He just needs constant -bloody- distraction

tryingtocatchthewind · 16/05/2014 16:04

About 30 minutes every evening when I'm trying to cook tea and he's tired and moaning

Artandco · 16/05/2014 16:11

They haven't watched any yet. 3 and 4 years. However we never watch it either so hasn't really occurred to us I suppose to let them. We don't actually tv but have laptops so maybe at some point soon we might get some films or something, or use cinema

StarDustInTheWind · 16/05/2014 16:17

So... what do people do all day...... folks must have some sort of magical time filling formula...

Age 3 we would have got up, had breakfast... they would watch some tv whilst I got showered and dressed... we would go to the park, play, do some "enrichment" type activity - painting/"writing" looking at books etc, then singing, music, a bit of messy "cooking" then they would watch tv whilst I made lunch.... then something in the afternoon - swimming, tots "martial arts" or running round the garden.. arty stuff, then a relax with a film, or some other kiddy tv, I'd make tea and then we'd put something relaxing on the tv before bedtime story and settling down.....

Probably amounted to 2-3 hours a day of tv... and a hell of a lot of other stuff besides....

So if I have 2 little geniuses on my hands - one is top of year8 for most subjects, the other is soooo artistic it lifts my heart to see her work.... is the implication that they would be off the scale "bright" without the tv having played a part in their upbringing???

widdle · 16/05/2014 16:21

Yes StarDust you would be selling DC2's artwork to Tate Modern and DC1 would be a brain surgeon by now. Tut tut - How dare you deprive humanity of their genius?? Grin

Fishandjam · 16/05/2014 16:25

Shitloads. Probably 3 hours a day on some days. Only CBeebies on the actual telly, mind you, or DVDs of Clangers, Bagpuss, Thomas TTE, Shaun The Sheep etc.

They're still young so who knows, maybe I have rotted their brains after all?

StarDustInTheWind · 16/05/2014 16:26

Grin soooooo sorry..... widdle

I just get a bit grrrrrrr at the implications that a bit of telly ruins kids .... bad parenting ruins kids ....

Jamjars22 · 16/05/2014 16:31

Mine don't watch any. But that is ONLY because I work full time. I'm sure if I was at home all dy we would watch packs during the winter. As long as you are getting out ad about plenty and engaging with them,

MewlingQuim · 16/05/2014 16:33

Telly is often on but we only really watch normal adult programmes, I can't stand the inane 'children's' stuff.and it doesn't seem educational in any way so I don't think she's missing out.

She gets to watch animation films because we like them too.

She doesn't watch tv on her own much.

Jamjars22 · 16/05/2014 16:34

Bloody phone

Basically if you are an engaged and interested mum and dot just use the tv on all day as your childcare then It really does not matter.

On really bad weather days I can think of nothing cosier than going out for a good long splash around in the puddles and rain and the retreating inside to build a fort and have a movie marathon.

NiceOneCenturion · 16/05/2014 16:37

I don't think watching tv dumbs kids down, and in fact my ds has picked up loads from ceebeebies in terms of knowledge, vocabulary, numbers etc. and there are some programmes he really loves that have enriched his imagination and playing/storytelling etc

However, with my ds, tv watching had crept up a lot when I was pregnant and with a newborn, and had stayed at a couple of hours a day as that was what he had become used to, and I found his behaviour generally had got more erratic, he seemed more stressed and whiny and less able to entertain himself as a result.

We were doing lots of other activities and getting out as much as possible too, but he was reluctant to get toys out, didn't want books, could only wind down with the tv.

I took drastic action and cut him down to half an hour, at the end of the day while I'm making dinner, and for the first day or so without it was hard work filling the time. By day three though, I no longer had to fill the gaps between activities for him, as he was playing really well on his own again without prompting, finding things to do for himself and bringing me things to read/play with and he seems much calmer and happier too.

Thurlow · 16/05/2014 16:41

It depends. If she's at the CMs then I know even if the telly is on a little for the older kids she's not really paying attention. At home, I try to keep it to 1-2 hours. On a good day when there is loads else to do then she might have two 20 minute DVDs like The Gruffalo, and then maybe another 15 mins or so of CBeebies at the end of the day. On a bad day when there's not much else to do it can creep up to 2 hours easily. She's just started to like watching a full Disney film like Dumbo, which are just over an hour.

Agree with others that it's swings and roundabouts. TV is not evil, but in general playing or reading is better. It's just some days you watch more. Nothing wrong with a day where you've watched three films and the whole CBeebies Bedtime Hour Grin

racmun · 16/05/2014 16:49

I'm with stardust a bit in the morning so I can actually get dressed, a but at lunch time and then done at tea time. I do loads of other stuff with ds, but I'm not sure how I would actually get a chance to out the washing on, Hoover round.

It's ten to five now and the tv will probably be on until bath time at 6 so that's 1hr 10 minutes in one go!
. I think tv is only a problem if you do nothing else with them.

PsammeadPaintedTheLion · 16/05/2014 17:01

Dd2 is 18 months and watches no telly.
Dd1 is 4 and sometimes watches a few episodes of octonauts.

When dd1 has watched more than about 30 mins, her mood and behaviour is absolutely dire. I think she is very sensitive to it, the overload of pictures and sounds. Obvs not all are the same. I do not think tv for children is bad in general, but it does seem bad for dd1.

Thurlow · 16/05/2014 17:08

I do try and watch some TV with DD too, I think that can help or at least make you feel better about it. So you can watch and ask questions, especially when they are still building up their vocabulary.

Artandco · 16/05/2014 17:12

In reply to others, if I was cooking dinner or something I would just leave them to entertain themselves with toys/ books/ or set them up with crayons etc.. Or they pull up a chair and help 'cook'.

My parents had tv on all day growing up and it drove me crazy. Hence we don't have one

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somewherewest · 16/05/2014 17:49

Our 2.5 yo doesn't see any TV, but we do watch stuff on the laptop for around half an hour most days - just nursery rhyme videos or the Octonauts.

PinkSquash · 16/05/2014 17:54

Loads, cbeebies, the news, housey programmes, DS1s favourites.

It's offset by trips out, activities and other chaos-creating funstuffs.