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Playgroup Etiquette

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weeblueberry · 14/05/2014 17:05

DD has just turned one and we've been going to a playgroup for about 10 weeks. There is a baby area to the group and a larger toddler area with bigger toys (cars, chutes, giant lego etc). She's been walking pretty much since we started going and, as such, isn't interested in the baby area where most of the younger kids are happy to sit and play with a toy while their parents chat. DD, on the other hand, wants to run around in the main area with the older kids so I'm sort of resigned to chasing about after her. Is this the done thing in this situation? I don't want to coddle her but she's just so tiny compared to the bigger kids that for safety reasons I couldn't really let her run free or else she'd be knocked over by a Little Tykes Cosy Coupe driven by a very overzealous child. Similarly she lasts 2 minutes in the baby area before escaping so I can't keep her there either.

Is it the 'done thing' to chase after her amongst the toddlers? I don't want the other kids parents getting pissy about me running around after her where the kids are pretty much left to their own devices. But I also don't really want to stop her going until she's old enough to play by herself.

Any suggestions or reassurance this is normal?

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RobinSparkles · 14/05/2014 17:10

It's fine to run around after her :). As she gets a little bit older you'll be able to step back a bit.

Thurlow · 14/05/2014 17:13

I always follow. Even if you try not to, within about 3 seconds they are either crying because they've fallen over something or screaming for you to come and help them, so you may as well admit defeat and go in straight away.

PumpkinPie2013 · 14/05/2014 19:55

Yes I think it's fine. At the one I go to there are always parents chasing their toddlers Smile

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Rhubarbgarden · 14/05/2014 20:07

Do what you feel comfortable doing. At the playgroup that I run, some parents stay with their dcs, some leave them to it. There's no etiquette; nobody is going to judge either way.

BarbarianMum · 15/05/2014 11:28

At that age its fine, you just need to stop some time before her 5th birthday Smile

weeblueberry · 15/05/2014 16:22

Thanks all! No it will definitely stop as soon as she's hardy enough to run about and not get knocked over. I'm definitely not over protective but would rather not see her squished. Wink

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