I'm so sorry this long but I want to give the full picture as I'm desperate for advice and to see if anyone else has experienced the same problem.
DS is almost 6 weeks and over the last month we've had terrible issues with wind. At 2 weeks old we started him on Infacol which although seeming to work at first it's effectiveness seemed to die out a little and DS was having hours and hours of high pitched screaming episodes due to the discomfort of the wind. When he reached a month old we switched to Gripe Water.
We gave the Gripe Water every 4 hours with his feeds as instructed and his burping was so much improved, DS became like a different baby and we thought we'd cracked it. However, 36-48 hours later we noticed DS began his screaming episodes again but this time it was when he was trying to trump or open his bowels. He seemed in agony, it was awful. It was interrupting his sleep, he'd wake up straining and screaming. It also affected his feeding as he couldn't suck whilst straining. The number of soiled nappies dramatically decreased and when there was any poo in the nappy it was the tiniest amount whereas prior to this he had regular dirty nappies with lots of poo in them.
The only thing that had changed was the introduction of the Gripe Water. We decided to reduce it's usage to half the recommended dose and within a few days he dramatically improved - he was still having smaller volumes of poo in his nappy but he wasn't straining or discomfort at all and he was much more settled.
However, his problems with burping arose again, because of the reduced Gripe Water I imagine, and his distress with the trapped wind was unbearable. He'd be screaming 6/7 hours at a time, his stomach was always swollen due to so much gas and me and DH thought going back to full strength Gripe Water was the only option and maybe the problems we had last time were just coincidental.
No such luck. 36 hours after being back on full dose Gripe Water the screaming and straining to open his bowels has started again. He's been waking up every 45 minutes in pain, crying, distressed and straining so hard with no results. He's hardly fed in the last 7 hours because he's too busy crying and straining to effectively attach and suck.
This morning I decided to not give him any Gripe Water and will return to using the Infacol.
Has anyone else had this problem, it's so difficult to know what is the right choice to make 