worried for my children

[adeelah1]

hi,
I don't know how to say this but i'm worried for my children. they are young children living with my exhusband. he let them do whatever they want and wach adult film, and i think the man is a abuser,. i tried to explain this to the socialworker but they se me as desparet mum who wants to ruined him. ANY ADVISE PLEASE HELP

Adult film Is that porn or over18 how old are your children and why aren't they with you more details would be helpful I've got some training in social care and child Heath

they are 6 and 7 years old and i mean porn, what are the signs to look for if i think that they are been abused.

If you tell a social worker clearly and calmly that you suspect abuse, and give your reasons why, they must investigate this. You should also tell the police on 101 (or 999 if they're in immediate danger).

Can you tell us why this man has custody of your children?

Why does he have custody of your dc?

How do you know he let's them watch porn?

What make you think he abuses them?

It would be a good idea to start writing things down to keep your thoughts clear for next time you speak to the social worker.

Why don't you ring then nspcc for advice? They should be able to help you with warning signs and other advice.

I notised last time i saw them that knew night pyjamas that i bougth my oldes was riped in sleves, and she told me that her arms was hurting her, and my younges layed on the floor and spred her legs shouting womans job hiten her private parts, and when i had them when they where babies everytime they visited him i notised black spot on they nappies and one time i was changing my oldes nappy and i saw that she had something that look like something that come from nose on her private parts,.

Your post is very hard to understand. Am I right in thinking that English isn't your first language?

The issues that are causing concern are not coming across very clearly, so I suspect that is why you are not making much progress with Social Services. You have made some very serious allegations, but you don't seem to have clear reasons to make them.

If you want these type of allegations to be investigated, then you need to be able to explain your grounds for making them. Is there someone who can help you describe and detail your concerns so they make a little more sense? How often do you see your children?