In brief my DH works away in the week. Through his work he has a place to stay. Me and DD are settled and in a routine. We live in a great place and we'd never move but there's not a lot of work here. I had a year off with DD and then we had some months where DH did the childcare so she's only been with a childminder since Jan. She's taken a while to settle to it all as going to a childminder coincided with daddy being away etc, I only work part-time, she's our PFB and not been left etc etc. She's only just cracked it really. A great job (for me) has come up near to where DH is working. We could live together and have a new routine of being one place on a week and coming back home on the weekend ..but I feel terrible about moving DD. The up side is seeing daddy all week and mummy not being pissed off she isn't doing all the grind on her own in the week and it would help us try to make a sibling too. Once they've settled once and figured out you will come back do they find it easier to settle somewhere new or will it be a long job again...don't know what to do? I feel guilty that most of this is for me but I also think we won't be able to do such fluid living once she's in school, so do it now? WWYD Any thoughts?? X