Any words of wisdom from parents of four or others about meeting competing needs? We have three at the moment DS and DD (14) and DD (6). We're in process of adopting a toddler, but would need to prove we have strategies in place to meet the needs of all four. I know what works well for our family now, but am struggling a little to articulate it in those terms. 'I'd take them to the park' hardly seems to cut it -- even though usually effective for us!! Top tips, however small, much appreciated.