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Violent boy in my son's reception class - opinions and similar experiences, please

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RebeccaJames · 14/01/2014 14:13

DS1 is in a very good primary school but there are terrible problems in his reception class. There are four problem boys, the worst of whom is just showing a high level of violence. My son has twice been punched in the stomach, once bitten, he's punched another boy in the face and yesterday he attacked a third boy, leaving a lump on his head and split the skin. These incidents that I know of for sure but there have apparently been others.

The school is obviously aware of the problem, and apparently trying to resolve it, but it's still happening in the second term. I have personally spoken to the head about it, and he just said they are doing their best.

What I would like to know is what is the best thing for us parents of the "victims" to do? Should we approach the school as a group? What is the school actual able to do about it? Does anyone know how long a problem like this is allowed to go on before the school is allowed to exclude? Is there no duty of care to the other children?

I just feel like moving my son to another school if he can't be safe. DS2 is always nervous of what will happen next, and the same is true of several other boys that i know of. It is not a happy class with all this going on.

Any thoughts?

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goshhhhhh · 14/01/2014 14:19

Go in & see the head. Ask them what they are doing & if they have referred for extra help. Happy to give you more info if you pm me.

JiltedJohnsJulie · 14/01/2014 14:22

My son had an ongoing problem like this which the school were aware of in y1. When he was hit again we wrote to the head teacher asking for an explanation of why this had been allowed to happen, and asking for a response in writing within 7 days. We also cc'd the letter to the Board of Governors and the LEA. My son has never had a problem with him since Smile

Wolfiefan · 14/01/2014 14:23

It is a safeguarding issue. YOUR child needs to be kept safe. Either Head explains exactly how this will happen or you go to governors then county then direct to OFSTED! No child should be assaulted in school.

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