We have dd (2.5) and ds (4months). Dd used to be a dream sleeper and has always settled herself at night. Moving into a toddler bed was a nightmare as she kept getting out over and over and over...one night she kept saying she wanted to sleep in baby's room and so we let her sleep on the sofabed in there (it's very low so safe etc). Now she won't sleep anywhere else and screams the house down if we try and put her to bed in her own bedroom. It sort of works ok and I bf baby while toddler drinks milk and we read a story. Baby simply settles himself to sleep when I put him down. If toddler is getting up it seems not to disturb him too much at bedtime, but it's during the night that it's a problem. Toddler sometimes wakes and in the past we left it for 10 mins and she generally went back to sleep. Now we darent leave her in case she wakes him up so have started giving her milk to comfort her to sleep. Worried she's drinking too much milk now! When she doesn't have nappy at night this will be a nightmare as she'll need to wee all night!
So my question generally is, shall I try and get her back into her own room? Or just let it happen and let them share and see how we fare as baby gets older? For now he is sleeping through so generally they are both in bed 7 till 7.