Stargirl I breast fed all 3 and they were all a nightmare. I did introduce 1 bottle to DS1 around 4 months, no bottles for DD and 1 bottle to DS 2 around 3 months.
The only difference I noticed was they could take a bottle calmly but breast feeding was like feeding an angry wasp.
I have definitely came to the conclusion through speaking to many others that breast feeding doesn't cause it. Bottle feeding doesn't cause it. Possibly Bottle feeding is meant to exasperate it but I didn't find that personally when I added a night bottle in.
Maybe if they were totally bottle fed it would be worse but it certainly isn't the cause.
I find that very interesting about folic acid though. Even just the fact that there is a study being done is good to hear.
All 3 hiccuped in the womb. I think that may be down to position.
shoewhore You say your GP said the valve was insufficiently developed. Was this his explanation of reflux, which is the theory or did your DS have the barium meal and x-ray to find out?
I was offered the barium meal and x-ray for DD but decided not to. I wimped out basically as she was only 3/4 months. Did anyone else have this done and what were the results?
Someone asked are boys more prone to it? Who knows but my DD was just as bad as my 2 boys.
Interestingly (and painfully) Each of my DC's reflux was worse than the last. So DS1 was not diagnosed until 4.5 months. On hindsight he was pretty good considering he didn't get meds until then.
There is not a chance DD would have made it to 4 months. She'd have combusted through screaming! Or id have left her in a box outside a police station.
At this point I was convinced that it was because the two of them were 3 weeks early - Until, DS2 arrived bang on time, a good weight and oh my god he has been the absolute reflux demon from hell. He was awful until 9 months. Even on meds I still struggled to feed him until I changed to bottles at 8 months. At least I could sit him up properly and he'd sink the bottle no problem. Breastfeeding consisted of me having to stop, stand up and wind him around 6 times per feed. Even at 8 months
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Ok the only similarities I see was that most people said they were overweight - so is it diet? Did you all take folic acid?