My mother in law had the kids one night over the weekend and because a blow up bed had burst WEEKS earlier she just put my 5 year old straight in their bed and all three slept there, not attempting to put him on the floor or top and tail with younger child or anything. I have things he could have slept on if she had asked.
I really don't like this having happened I think he will expect to next time do the same. So I said something and she's totally blew it out of proportion and she's really offended! If he tells people in school I don't want them thinking they have a wierd relationship sleeping with nan and grandad.
Yes I have my children in my bed watching tv of a morning or if they wake in the night upset for abit but I'm their Mum! He doesn't get upset there and I know he would have slept on a duvet or topped an tailed and just got on with it.
Do you think I was unreasonable in telling her off? And am I overreacting?