Hi I am fairly new to this so a bit slow to start. I have twin girls who are 8. One is very easy going will oblige in almost anything you ask her. Is very sociable and likeable. The other is the opposite end of the scale. Is very moody and awkward. Will dig her heels in all the time even though it rarely works. She is not at all sociable and enjoys mostly her own company. I don't want them to be the same and I am quite happy for them to have different personalities, but sometimes the behaviour of my dd awkward can put me in a bad mood and make a family outing become a nightmare. I am considering charts, but they would have to dwell on the positives and be equal for them both. Anyone with any ideas, these will be much appreciated. I have two older children as well so it is really important that we have some enjoyable family time and I don't make dd awkward feel like she spoils this most of the time.