I have a 7yo dd & 5yo ds. They both currently share a bedroom, in bunk beds, but we are supposed to moving (fingers crossed that the father gives us permission) in the next few months, and they'll have rooms of their own.
I have recently found out that, even though I was told he was not moving in with his gf until at least next year but it would be a 3 bed house, the children have been staying at the gf's.
I don't have a problem with them stay at hers, my problem is that it is a 2 bed house, and until I complained, my dd was sharing the double bed with the two adults and my ds was sharing with her 7yo. I have now found out that my two are top & tailing in a 3/4 bed.
I don't think this is acceptable. Especially as he has the original bunk beds that I bought, at his mothers house - where he still claims to be living. I don't know what to do about it, as in don't want him to take away the possibility of us moving. But I don't want to be bringing my children back to the UK every third week, to have to live like that!
Any suggestions?