Might seem a silly question, but I am sure you are not supposed to use a cotton wool bud or anything in case it goes too far into the ear drum and does some damage? I try and pick out any wax I see, much to my son's dismay!
Went to the dr's yesterday to get him checked out as he has been unwell and dr looked in his ears to check for any sign of infection and he said his ears are dirty, which made me feel like a bad mother!