I still give my 2 year old DD milk as her main drink (the other being water). She still has a bottle of milk before bedtime.
She has had some minor issues with eating - sometimes she'll eat like a horse, other days she'll just graze on small amounts. But I think she is a good weight etc.
However my ex is of the opinion that she drinks too much milk and that this is the cause for her days of not eating so well. He had her over the weekend and when he brought her back he announced quite proudly that he had not given her any milk at all and that she had subsequently eaten much better than usual (although what he told me she eats like this quite often on her "good" days even when she's had milk). He told me that he thinks that I should stop the bedtime milk and also not give her so much during the day. I am of the opinion that she needs the milk for her growing teeth and bones etc. Obviously I understand that drinking too much can quell an appetite for food but I really don't think that she drinks that much , nor that she does'nt eat enough. I am concerned that she won't be getting any milk at all when she is with her dad.
I was wondering what others take on this was and to see how much other people give their toddlers milk during the day.