I am considering re-locating back to my hometown which is in London but somewhere suburb outter london. My family always ask when am I moving back. I am currently married with 2 kids but the marriage has been dying. Moving has risks such as education and adjustments and increased cost of living. My kids are in a very good school at the moment and I worry that what if they cant be placed in another good school. I have explained to my kids that we might move. One was excited the other quite sad but cheered up after asking me a few questions. The only reason I stayed in the city I am in is because of marriage. Once I finally end it I will have absolutely no support system here. If he does not watch the kids I don't get to go much places or I often just go places where they can come along.
In London I have family all across south London. Quite a big family. All I need is a new job and a home. I have close friends all over London in general too. So their family and social life would improve greatly.
I am just concerned whether it would be better for me to stay put and get a really good paying job so not to depend on anyone or just move and re-start my life. He knows I want to move out of town and thinks me moving will affect his relationship with the kids. Yet we all live together now and he doesn't do much with them anyway. My main concern is my kids and how moving will affect them.
Help?
Thoughts?