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KatieLily12 · 25/07/2013 14:58

Someone should get a smile out of this.

We live an hour or more from both sets of parents. I am a freelancer and therefore have NO childcare as anything I earned would go straight into childcare at current costs. So I work whenever I can- naps, weekends, evenings and occasionally my mum takes little one for an hour or so when she visits.

My partner's mum is really not that great at the childcare thing but has insisted that she wants to help. Each visit is exhausting. For example last time I managed only 20 minutes work in 3 hours and when I came back into the room was told 'she's got a pooey nappy you should change'. It's a nightmare but I'm trying very hard to make it work for everyone's sake.

It's been a lousy day and DP's mum arrived during little ones nap and started unpacking tons of things. She always brings random things for us as she's something of a hoarder. We say 'yes' and put it in the charity box for fear it will go back into her already dangerously cluttered house.

Little one is unsettled so I have her asleep on my chest and gladly took refuge as boxes and bags kept appearing.

I've just heard knocking at the door. She's locked herself out going to the car to get more hasn't she?

It's going to be a very long afternoon isn't it?

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GrimmaTheNome · 25/07/2013 15:02

Oh dear. I'd be tempted to feign deafness to the knock, but sounds like you're too nice a person to do that.

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KatieLily12 · 25/07/2013 15:13

Bean meltingly hot so tried to transfer but she woke Hmm

My living room has mysterious boxes in it

Sigh

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KatieLily12 · 25/07/2013 16:04

As agreed, disappeared upstairs and could hear 'are you hiding?' Being called over and over. Little one griping.

Determined not to be a helicopter mum but after ten minutes wandered down.

Little one wedged herself under a chest of drawers while granny getting herself a cup of tea.

Confused

How do I end this nicely? I appear to have a granny invasion

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GrimmaTheNome · 25/07/2013 16:19

Could you get your mum to come and divert your DP's mum?

KatieLily12 · 25/07/2013 19:36

Funny you should say that..... My mums due any minute

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Passmethecrisps · 25/07/2013 19:41

Hi katie!

Sounds horrendous. Could you lock you and LO in the bathroom and just refuse to come out?

Or.

Tell MIL that there is the world's biggest car boot sale on at x town and you really need her to go and buy a purple high chair. She must not come back without one

monkeynuts123 · 25/07/2013 19:42

You say you have no family to help with childcare and then you go on to ridicule and moan about your MIL who out of the generosity of her heart comes to help you. I'd give my front teeth to have a family member pop in to help, even if they were no real help, just to know someone gave enough of a shit. You sound like an ungrateful little upstart flouncing around.

Passmethecrisps · 25/07/2013 19:48

Monkey that is really harsh! It seems clear to me that katie does appreciate the help but it has been a long day and the help is not really making things better.

Have you never had a bad day and had your patience tested?

KatieLily12 · 25/07/2013 22:36

Oh lord monkeynuts

Upstart is a phrase that's just not used enough these days. I must try to use it more often.

Ungrateful would have been throwing it in her face. I haven't. I've been told when to expect her and admittedly begrudgingly, agreed and tried very hard to show her how to help. Each time she does I'm left with things to tidy fix, take to charity shops and a baby to settle and am behind in my work. I understand where the gesture is coming from though so I persevere.

I was trying to find the funny side of quite an exhausting situation and was sure I'm not the only one who has an over zealous in law.

I'm sorry you're having a bad day too though monkey.

Hi passmethecrisps! How are you?

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chickpea24 · 25/07/2013 22:45

Well I got a smile out if your post!!!

Makes me realise how lucky we are with family help, I shouldn't complain really!

Passmethecrisps · 25/07/2013 22:48

Hia!

Good, thanks!

I am also thinking I should put 'upstart' back into my day to day language.

Sounds like the wee one is firing on all cylinders

KatieLily12 · 25/07/2013 22:55

I'm glad chickpea, that was genuinely how it was intended. It really has been a cow of a week. I know I appreciate these threads when I need a feeling of solidarity and a smile.

crisps she's absolutely cracking! We can all barely keep up. Little tinker

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Passmethecrisps · 25/07/2013 23:12

Brilliant. The nov thread would love to see you if you fancy.

Good luck with the MIl

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