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is this just a stupid idea? long

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lola88 · 23/07/2013 09:04

DS 18mo has started to wake during the night and not go back to sleep for hours, he always was a terrible sleeper but from 12mo he got better and when he woke i could hand him a bottle and he would go back to sleep by himself.

Now when he wakes he wants to be cuddled which i don't mind we cuddle him to sleep anyway at bedtime the problem is i can't put him back down. The main reason is i'm very short and have to sort of drop/roll him into his cot which wakes him, also because i'm small and he's a big boy when i hold him in his rocking chair he can't get comfy on me.

A few times i have resorted to bringing him into the livingroom and laying on the sofa with him where he'll fall straight asleep but then i have the same problem of trying to move him and get him back to the cot. Last night it took an hour to let him get in a deep enough sleep to move him and this was after an hour of attempted to get him in his cot.

I don't want to do any sleep training as he goes to bed well and will fall back asleep quicky, tbh i cba with it and don't want to leave him crying it's just moving him thats the issue. Our beds not an option i can't sleep with him and DP in it they are to big and i get squashed and uncomfy. So i'm thinking of taking the side from his cot and getting a bed guard so i can just lie in with him then move myself once he's sleeping me moving once he's sleeping again is not a problem it's moving him so is this a good option or am i just going to get more problems?

I need to take the side off in the next few months anyway because he's getting to big to lift

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wannaBe · 23/07/2013 09:09

if you're having to cuddle him to sleep then he's not good at going to bed is he? Tbh you're not doing him any favours by cuddling him to sleep at night. he's eighteen months now not a newborn (when obviously that's different), but should be able to self settle at this age without the need for hours of intervention in the middle of the night.

Personally I would hit the sleep training route...

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