I'm having a think tonight as its a few days from DD3s 5th birthday.
Inbetween DD2 & DD3 I had a horrible mc, then just before Christmas thought I was losing DD3, I actually felt her first flutters on Christmas Eve telling me she was alive 
Anyway I have 2 other DDs so started to get all the hoping for a boy comments, you'll be wanting a boy, DH will be wanting a son etc etc
We had a scan at 22 weeks private and got told it was perfectly healthy DD. but everyone else's attitude was awful, I had people say " oh you'll be praying for a boy" to which I would reply "we know its a girl" and get "oh that's a shame" family were the worst, my Mum who I already had a strained relationship with acted like she couldn't give a toss, she knew I had gone for a scan and never called for weeks after it as she knew it was another girl 
it was as if her being a girl was a disappointment to everyone.
At no time did DH or I ever wish she was a he, she was born and was the most beautiful angel baby there is so much so that DH said when she was 3 months that we had to have another.
She is the most amazing little thing, everyone falls in total love with her who meets her, they would be scared not to, she's a fantastic little person but still we had the comments.
We had a fourth and did get a DS (total shock) we thought it was DD4 had her names chosen already. Of course we all adore him but no more than any of the DDs, we still get the comments of stopping now we have a boy, that's lucky you finally got your boy often in front of the DDs
I'm so lucky to have each one of my fabulous children I couldn't care what's between their legs, I just get so annoyed with the comments about DD3 especially