Just had one of those Tanya Byron moments holding my ds still while he had one of those 'I'm in such a rage I'm going to make myself sick' tantrums - all because he wouldn't eat his lunch and wanted a yoghurt and I wouldn't give him one. He was spitting at me, throwing his lunch around etc. I usually give him a chance to apologise and go back and eat his lunch (even if just a little), and then give him a yoghurt, but today that wasn't working. I realised one of his last few molars is coming through and he's had some Nurofen, but I don't think that excused the behaviour which was some of his worst. He's now in bed and actually went to bed fairly peacfully in the end after a cuddle. Should I have given in and given him the bloody yoghurt?