My daughter is really testing me lately. Every morning involves a huge fuss about the way her socks feel (annoying bump along the seam etc), the way her shoes feel and brushing/putting hair up. It often ends in tears whether or not I lose my temper. Tonight she aalso had a tantrum about having a bath. It makes me depressed. I feel like I was such a good mum when she was tiny - good bond & I felt happy. But now its so much harder & I've lost the enthusiasm/energy that I need. My heart says that she is unhappy & not enjoying school. My head says she's a spoilt brat who knows just how to play me. I thought I wanted aanother child but that seems like a terrible idea now.