My ds is 4 months old and I am starting to notice a big difference between him and his same aged "friends" at the baby groups we go to.
Ds is still very much like a newborn in the way he eats and sleeps, he is very big (10 pounds at birth) so he tends to feed lots, we are ebf. He sleeps on me or sometimes in the pushchair when we are walking somewhere far. The other babies all seem to only sleep in their pushchair, they have all started either combi feeding or food (we live in a country where food is recomended from 4 months) The other parents seem to know when their baby is due to nap, some days my ds naps for an hour some days he sleeps for 5 hours in a row.
He sleeps really well at night, he wakes once at 3.30, I feed him and then he sleeps till 7ish.
Ds seems older in many ways, he is huge (size 9-12 month clothing) he can roll over and sit unaided, he is very sociable and loves chattig a singing.
I often get comments like he's like a newborn he will just sleep anywhere or he's very cuddly/clingy isn't he, he is happy to just cuddle up with me and watch what is going on when he is sleepy.
I worry that maybe I am holding him back by being so unstructured, I don't really want a structure that is unbreakable because we go to groups every day at all different times so if he needed to nap at the same time everyday it would restrict what we could do, but maybe I am being selfish.
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Do I need more structure for my 4 month old baby?
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honeytea · 24/04/2013 20:23
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