i have no clue how i should have dealt with this today. i basically did nothing.
when i collected ds1(7) from afterschool club he was holding his stomach and before even saying hello to me he said that a boy had punched him. at this afterschool club parents must wait outside and the children basically pour out the door and there is a massive crowd/rush of people so i couldn't move anywhere for a few seconds and i couldn't hear ds properly so once the crowd had moved i asked him what had happened and he said he was playing with a boy just as they were waiting to leave and another boy punched him. i asked if he told the leader and he said no as it was then time to go. well i didn't know what to do. should i have gone in and spoken to the leader or should i talk to the school. ds knows the boy's first name and class he is in but that's it. what, if anything would school/ASC do if i did say something? and what do i say? i cant believe how shit i was at dealing with this. so pissed off with myself and ds probably thinks i dont care. i just told him that next time something like that happens he must tell the leader straight away. but what's the point of telling him that if he can see that i didn't do that when he told me?