Hi, very frequent lurker here. Having major sleep problems with my two DD's. I'll try and keep it short. I know all of this is totally my fault but have no idea how to sort it out. Ok, so DD1 is 4+2 and DD2 is 18 months. A typical evening goes like this, dinner, bath, story (we live in small terrace with DDs sharing small room) I put DD2 in her cot with a bottle and I get into bed with DD1. If I don't she screams the house down and wakes up her sister. I am completely at her mercy begging and bribing her to be quiet and sleep, eventually she will. She will then wake up approx 3 hours later and will not go back without me, this continues half hourly until I give up and put her in my bed and go to sleep myself. THEN DD2 will wake sporadically and not go back to sleep without a bottle, sometimes 3-4 a night! We are at breaking point, my DH hasn't slept in his own bed for months and I'm getting so cross with DD1 and I hate it. I know supernanny would tell me to do the stay in bed technique, we have tried this and she is amazingly determined! Hours and hours of screaming. Also tried going cold turkey on DD2s bottles and after 2 hours crying and both if them awake I just couldn't take anymore. Thanks for reading, sorry it was long. Feel like we are in such a mess with all this.