creeped out by DS friends dad at school

[saulaboutme]

I am so, so annoyed with another parent at my sons school!! Our sons are in the same class and he is there sometimes with his wife. He goes out of way alot to talk to me and to be truthful I try to avoid him as I found him to be abit full on and he is always!! staring at me. Anyway, this morning I walk into the playground with my son and he is there. I walk past him but I can feel he's watching me and the playground is busy. as the kids are lining up he has come abit too close behind me puts his hand on my shoulder and says "hello sexy"!!!! I am mortified and shocked but I said to him "don't do that!!" and walked away from him. What a bloody cheek and he's a creep. He talks to my mum alot as they are from the place but she seems to think he's ok. I really don't want to make a scene but he needs to back off. I'm married but DH doesn't do pick ups due to work.

you don't have to make a scene, keep rebuffing him, he will get the msg, make each time a bit more aggressive though, like ' i asked you not to do that, please don't' to 'piss off, you are creeping me out now'

I would be inclined to make a scene, myself. I've had pestering of this sort before and politeness/cold shoulder tends to go completely over their heads. If he touches you again turn around, get right up close (like your face two inches from his) and shout "I HAVE ASKED YOU TO LEAVE ME ALONE, PLEASE." He'll probably slink off muttering about frigid bitches and that'll be that. But don't be surprised if he starts telling everyone you're a lesbian.

thanks good advice. I'm doing the cold shoulder and I really don't want to get into the confrontation unless I have to. It's put me right off for the day and yes ZuleikaD it is pestering. His wife is so lovely. They are both off work due to illness (she gave him her kidney!!!) but he may be having a midlife crisis. Don't want DH involved as he may kick his arse. (not funny) Am going to avoid him like the plague!!

Wow i could never imagine anyone having the audacity to do that, especially with his wife there and knowing you are married! Some people have absolutely no morals!

beujolais, very true. AND he says he is very reigious and has found God again. He doesn't do it when his wife is there. It's a Catholic school and once in chrurch I was with my family and when we did the sign of peace his wife made an effort to come over and I actually caught him giving us a dirty look! He's a total weirdo. Will keep you updated.

Haha the ones who protest to have found god are the very ones who are weird! How brazen can one person be. Hopefully he'll leave well alone now and vent in confession! If he does do it again though i'd go to town on him!

She gave him her kidney? Tell her to get it back, he'll leave you alone then for sure...

just an update, I won't bore you with everytime I'm at the school. I'm trying the cold shoulder. We had a class meeting last night to meet the new teachers and where I was going to sit would have been directly in front of him so I moved seats. Avoided him like the plague. On leaving the school you have to wait for the security gate to open and as it did here he comes running towards me. I turned my back and left and he made it out but I started a converstion with another parent so he wouldn't talk to me. I don't care if I have to have fake phone conversations I will not be speaking to him again. Have a good weekend everyone.