Hi everyone. basically apart from the week off my dp had after our dd was born he has spent no time with her. he accepts as much over time as possible even offers to do other peoples over time. He never changes her nappy, he does nothing. We went out for a few hours last night for my b.day and had a few drinks whilst my mum had our dd and the whole time i just kept thinking about dd being at home and he just kept talking about f.in football!!! I put dd moses basket in my mums room as we had a few drinks so mum did night feeds and hes said he didnt even notice it was gone. i said to him if he went away for a week would he even miss her he said probably not to be honest. he feels no way about going and staying at his mums over night and never ever texts me to ask how dd is. never! Shes been a difficult baby due to colic and reflux but i am the one that deals with her screaming for hours. if i give her to him to give him a chance to bond with her he sits her.on his lap and watches tv while she is there staring at him. so i say to him shes looking at you or her head is hanging down he has a go at me and tells me to leave him alone. im supposed to.be taking her to see my dad and nan today and he said i cant take her i can go by myself when they never get to see her. is this normal behaviour for a dad not to be bothered with his child. hes more interested in the tele. he wants all my attention and even had a strop about me reading her a story! Sorry for the long post.