hi soyabean...Im in my third year on the undergrad course at City.Without a doubt i'd say go for it...suck it and see!
The post grad qualification is definitely a tough course ,however a woman i know managed it pregnant ,with a two year old ....she even managed to get herself a job to go to once she'd had the baby! you will meet some brainiacs that's for sure.
The NHS pay your fees and you get a means tested bursary...the older your kids are and the less your partner earns the more you get!...i think they make an allowance for mortgage payments but not for rent!(not that im bitter)
my dp earns about 20k..i get a grant of about 3k...plus subsidised travel on the underground.(my boy is 2.5 yrs....and delicious...i digress)
I also get a student loan of about 800 pounds a term.we totally manage...but i AM thrifty..
You would have to consider the course as full time employment and then some.On the undergrad grad course you get one study day,one placement day and three days of lectures 9-6 (roughly).im not sure if the post grads get a study day?
I study most nights and at least alternate weekends,but that is partly because i am soooo inefficient and can barely type andspend hours proof reading my work for typos and slack grammar etc.however once you get into a subject it can be so compelling you find yourself reading allsorts of stuff in the early hours.
i find i 'go underground' as term starts because it is really is very tiring, exhillarating,emotive, challenging, taxing...sometimes getting to sleep is tricky when your head is full.
I absolutely absolutely love it...it really is the most fascinating course, dotted with brilliant and inspiring lectures/peers/people ....