Hi, just wondered if anyone had any thoughts on this. My son has had no contact with his dad for 8months now. He refused to go for contact to the point where he was having panic attacks, really distressed, going into school upset on contact days etc and after months of trying to maintain the contact ordered by the court I finally stopped trying to make him go and since then he has been much more settled. He has now had a guardian appointed by the court and until she begins work the court has set aside dads application to have contact enforced and allowed written contact with my son to respond if he wishes. I know that at some point they are likely to want to try and establish some kind of direct contact and if this was what my son wanted I would have no problem but he is adamant he doesn't. What I would like to know is anyones experience of how the court/guardian might go about trying to rebuild a relationship with dad especially as he will not even recognise that there is a problem -just blames me or says he will not be dictated to by a child.