I have tried vinegar in the fabric conditioner drawer and giving them a good shake before and during air drying. They still feel rough and crusty after drying, I know they soften as soon as baby wets but I feel bad putting them on her like this.
any other ideas?????
would rather not go back to using tumble dryer all the time as the elec bill was going through the roof 
they are MEOS by the way and fantastic apart from this. Really don't want to go back to disposables by DH keeps commenting on how poor dd must hate the roughness - don't think she cares too much myself 