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clinging to mummy- aargh!

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EverythingsNotRosie · 29/07/2012 18:43

Just wondered if anyone else had been through this and could offer any advice. I work full time as a teacher so have six weeks holiday, one week has gone by. DD and I have had a lovely week and she has been calm and easy to entertain. She's 20 months so doesn't play independently much and likes to be in the room doing what I am doing or me playing with her but she will go off on her own for 5 minutes every now and then.

However, whenever there is someone else around she is very clingy, won't let me put her down, stops talking (she speaks in phrases at home e.g. catch it ball mummy!') . This weekend has been really hard as she is also doing this with DH. She literally won't leave me alone for a second and not only is this annoying but it is upsetting him as well!

Is the best thing to pick her up and let her become independent in her own time or to insist that she walks, lets daddy do her nappy etc even thought it upsets her?

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UnderwaterBasketWeaving · 29/07/2012 18:51

Hello, no advice, sorry, but lots of sympathy.

I teach ft too and have had a good week with 16mo DS. But I've had the leg-clinging thing today (looks cute, flipping annoying though!) and have ended up peeling potatoes with him on my back.

He's also started demanding more BFs this week.

Maybe it's just them reconnecting? I'm hoping he'll be all secure & happy again by Sept, but I'll go with the feeding/carrying for now, if only for a quiet life!

lovechoc · 29/07/2012 18:55

I'm going through this with DS2 who is 2yo and I have been getting annoyed aswell. I know what you're going through!! You just have to accept you cannot get much done when they are like this. I think my own DC may have a bug or something as he's normally not this bad. He clings to my leg at breakfast time and like this all day as if I'd even attempt to run away (for the hills). Sorry, no constructive advice, just wanted to respond to you to let you know it's happening to others out there :)

EverythingsNotRosie · 29/07/2012 18:57

Yes, I suppose it is a big change for her, not going to nursery every day! Today it has been almost like she is jealous of DH, pushing him out of the way and saying no etc and to be honest, I don't want her to think that behaviour is OK, even though I am sympathetic to her feeling jealous! It's a minefield!

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