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what do your kids do when you are cooking/cleaning?

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CandyCrate · 16/07/2012 10:11

DS (23mnths) watches TV while I clean and cook, because otherwise he tends to do naaughty things while I am out of the room, or hang off my legs while I am trying to open the oven etc.

I am trying to find things other than tv watching for him to do though, as I tend to spend about 2 - 2.5 hours a day cleaning or cooking, and I think this is a bit too much tv for him. Also it means I feel guilty about letting him watch a bit when he is wound up or tired as I think he has had too much already.

What do your kids do when you need them to not be by you??

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attheendoftheday · 17/07/2012 21:08

Slight thread hijack, but how does everyone get their grass cut? It's the one job I really struggle with.

nextphase · 17/07/2012 21:13

grass cutting and ironing are 2 things that have to happen when the kids are asleep, or there is an extra adult in the house. I have been known to leave work early, cut the grass, then go to Nursery to pick up the boys. Be interesting to see how others do it.

CornishMade · 18/07/2012 07:17

Re my earlier post about just accepting/trying to get used to the fact that things will take longer to do as you involve him or just try to get it done around him... I didn't mean that to be 100% of the time, with no telly of course - that would drive you insane. When they no longer nap you do need me-time still, both for chores and just for your head space! Just decide eg 1 hour/day max of tv, when you can intensively do some cleaning/cooking. The other hour or so of work, that's when you involve him throughout the day (and it then takes a bit longer). Don't feel guilty about an hour of telly with a non-napper. :)
Glad he liked the plastics cupboard. And yes to washing up the plastics too! Just put a towel on the kitchen floor and another to hand for flooded surfaces when he's finished! But he'll have a ball.

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CandyCrate · 18/07/2012 08:32

He does do the washing up thing, but I make him go outside! He likes to pour the water out of the bowl so it would flood my kitchen. Its been so rainy lately he hasnt had much of a chance to play it.

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BonnieBumble · 18/07/2012 08:34

Ds2 (2.3) will come and sit on my lap or try and take the Hoover out of my hand. I have tried to turn it into a game or get him to help but it doesn't work. I have accepted that household chores and using the computer can not be done in his presence.

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