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iPod Touch-present for 6yr old

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mummynumnum · 29/06/2012 20:50

My dd is 6 next week and all she wants for her birthday is an iPod touch. I think it is too much but dh says it is all she wants, she isn't spoilt and she is so so good. Does this not deserve one Is his arg. I can sort of see where he is coming from and she will be upset if she does not get it. What do you think?

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cheesesarnie · 30/06/2012 16:40

make sure he doesn't sneakily play on it then Wink Grin

mummynumnum · 30/06/2012 16:44

I think that might be at the heart of it!

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MrsLetch · 30/06/2012 18:57

My 5 year old DD got one at Christmas and it is the best thing since sliced bread.

I think a lot of the objections people raise are quite superficial / inaccurate complaints tbh...

It's too expensive - not necessarily, ours cost £50 for a second hand, 2nd generation one and that came with a set of speakers. This was about half the cost of the sylvanian families house that she also wanted. Even a full cost one is no more expensive than a bike, Nintendo DS, Sylvanian families regency hotel + 1 animal set, a Barbie's doll's house, a trampoline...

They should be out playing proper games - that's a false dichotomy. Having one does not stop them doing proper games. It depends on what rules you establish. We have a 'not in the house' policy. So I tend to keep it out of reach in the house - so they mostly use them when they're stuck in confined spaces such as when DD has to sit quietly (and still) for 3 hours at a gymnastics competition. Then they're a godsend. Also, to be fair my DDs wouldn't choose to play with them when they've got a dolls house, dressing up etc to play with...

They get broken easily -Not necessarily. You can buy cases which will cover all the sides except the screen. This will give a lot of protection and will cover dropping them from adult waist height onto a tiled floor - trust me I've dropped my iphone and the case has been great protection! ... Or you can just do as I do and teach your children to respect their property! At 5 my DD is responsible enough to know that this is an expensive toy and she musn't leave it lying around, or throw it etc. She's had hers for 6 months without a problem.

Next year you'll have to buy an even more expensive present - err, why? Two years ago, my eldest daughter wanted an ipod. We bought her a second hand one. The following year she wanted hair curlers. So we bought her those. They cost £25 and that was her main present and she was thrilled with them. This year she wanted a hamster. That only cost £8! (and it is the present that she reports to be her very best present yet). My daughter's presents have actually been getting cheaper as she has been getting older. In fact, the most expensive present either of them have ever been given was a dolls house.

They'll go on the internet with them - no, not necessarily. They need wifi to go on the internet. If your neighbours have locked down their internet (like mine have), don't give them access and they can't! Besides my DD hasn't actually worked out how to use the internet on it yet, because I haven't shown her how!

There's no point to them without the internet - yes there is. I download the apps through the app store and then sync the phones to them. Same with the DVDS. My DD2 thoroughly enjoy hers without accessing the internet. There's tons of apps you can use without the internet.

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mummynumnum · 30/06/2012 19:04

Great points-mrs letch!

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GnocchiNineDoors · 30/06/2012 19:06

If you would spend £140 on gifts for her birthday, then I cant see anything wrong with spending that on just one gift. As lo g as she knew that as ut was expensive she would onlt get that of you.

If you usually spend, say £50 on birthday presents, maybe suggest she asks nicely for money off family for presents so she can save up for it.

Fwiw, Im a luddite....kids need outdoor play, paper books and time for.imagination and creativity but even I think the ipod touches are great and (imo) much better than a DS.

imnotmymum · 30/06/2012 21:09

Mrs letch that is a spot on post

MrsLetch · 30/06/2012 22:19

Also, a compromise position would be for her to have money to buy one herself.

My eldest DD has a first generation ipod, but now wants the latest model as she wants to be able to take pictures and videos on it. However, £140 is more than I am prepared to spend on one toy. Therefore, I have said if she saves her money, when her birthday comes in November, she can ask for money. She has been saving since easter and now has £30 saved. She's asking for money for her birthday, so by November she'll probably have the money to buy one.

If you're not comfortable with the cost, you can always try doing something similar...? I believe it helps to encourage them to respect their items. We did the same when she wanted a netbook a couple of years ago. She had some birthday money, but then did a car boot to raise some money, saved all her pocket money and did extra chores to save up for it. Two years on, the netbook is practically still in pristine condition - she'd kill anyone who'd dare to ruin it Grin!

I find this to be a great compromise if the cost is more than you're willing to spend.

mummynumnum · 30/06/2012 23:23

The deed is done and it is ordered. In the end her two sets of gp chipped in so she will know it is from alot of people as it is s big present. Smile

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Gingerodgers · 01/07/2012 07:08

Go girl, there is nothing wrong with using the technology available in this day and age. My son, 6 uses an iPad for tonnes of stuff other than games. In days gone by it would have been, "get your nose out a that book", now it's all about screen time! It's the modern age x

mummynumnum · 01/07/2012 08:53

Got a good deal and free dock with it as well from asda!

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