Do you let your children go out in their socks?
My daughter is seven and hates shoes, comes home from school, kicks off her shoes and is off outside to play in her socks, which is not a problem. Where we live, a lot of the kids especially the girls do the same.
Some people make a big deal of the fact she isn't wearing shoes when they come round or we go round to others. She gets into trouble with her child minder if she takes her shoes off outside.